Enhance Their Love Maps
Nurture Their Fondness and Admiration
Turn Toward Each Other Instead of Away
Let their Partner Influence Them
Solve their Solvable Problems
Create Shared Meaning
You’ve tried sitting each other down to come to a truce, asking your pastor friends to intervene and “teach” him how to act or calling your mom for advice. But those things aren’t as effective as they used to be.
Because everybody has a different answer, based on the opinions of their own personal experiences most times. Most wives aren’t willing to “lay down and submit” without a fight. We’ve twisted the roles of husbands and wives to fit our own agendas.
The other part is the fact that times have changed: There are so many distractions throughout social media land and trying to move up the corporate or self-employment ladders, that you don’t get solid time to work on your relationship.
Unless its in super doo-doo trouble.
Couples are no longer slow-cooking their relationships with intention and purpose. Rarely are we courting or reading solid evidence to learn how to make things work.
We wing it.
Then, when trouble comes, we’ll read. But not at the same time. So it’s hard to get on the same page with those #PowerCoupleGoals.
And it can get awkward, when you’re trying to “teach” him how to be committed without that whole thing getting miscommunicated that you’re trying to “run things”.
Your relationship is going downhill. Taking a vacation to getaway and spend quality time together is just not an option because ain’t nobody got time for that right now. And that couples retreat you want to go to is a few states over–so that means gas, hotel, airfare, and too much time away from home.
I have the perfect solution for you.
It’s a weekend experience I designed specifically for those of you who want to create a more meaningful relationship with less conflict.
An event designed to strengthen your friendship, build trust, renew your commitment to each other, while repairing past hurts that keep coming up.
All you need is to master seven simple principles to create a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.
These principles always work. Its working right now for hundreds of thousands of couples.
So why did I even create this experience?
First, my marriage fell apart at the seams after six years (around the same time that research says couples have theeee most issues and divorce; the other year is around 14).
I can still feel the pain of not knowing how to save my marriage; being a therapist and healing people of their issues, giving great relationship “advice” to friends but being helpless at home.
After my divorce, I was committed to healing myself and learning how to keep a happy marriage because a second divorce was not an option.
And its also my way of giving back to couples in Mississippi because Lord knows that our children need both their parents in a happy, healthy relationship not a chaotic ball of confusion.
The Other truth is this: marriage counseling is great but its clear that most couples wait until there’s a “real problem”. AFTER they’ve tried it all. And you and I know it takes much more work to get things back together when you’re already feeling so defeated.
This experience was created to not only prevent divorce but mainly as prevention to help you work on your relationship before conflict begins to takes it ugly toll.
And I’ve taken all the reading and guessing out of how to exactly make these 7 principles work for you.
Yes. This experience is absolutely 3x more effective when you use it for prevention vs. when your relationship is already in trouble.
Studies even show that attending this event will help reduce relapse of issues especially when you add a shot of brief couples therapy. So you can eliminate the need for intensive couples counseling. Even if you’re already in some distress, you can cut down on the time it takes to repair the damage.
The goal is to build a stronger connection with your partner in two fun-filled days. You’ll join a small group of other couples during an intimate weekend to master the 7 principles, which are guaranteed with research (not guesses) to make relationships work.
Normal price is $349. Get $100 off with this special limited time offer for the next 48 hours.
CHECK THIS OUT. The normal cost to attend a one hour couples session with me ranges from $150-189.
You’re getting a date night experience on Friday with desserts and drinks, 10 hours of training with a licensed professional, all workshop materials, and a continental breakfast on Saturday. This training is worth over $1500.00. Don’t miss this Ah-Ma-Zingg opportunity.
Roslyn Ashford is a Licensed Professional Counselor and an expert in developing training programs. She has trained and spoken in front of hundreds of parents, professionals, and leaders to reduce conflict, improve communication, create a healthy lifestyle, and leverage their leadership skills.
She is a Gottman Trained Leader for the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work program and has completed Level 3 Practicum Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, using this method in her work with couples.
Roslyn is the author of The Sink before the Swim, an inspirational journey about faith, love, purpose, and the “because” behind why bad things happen to good people. She practices at Crossroads Christian Counseling in Laurel and Hattiesburg, Mississippi.
Of course, Friday Date Night is Dress to Impress with your most creative, couples costume. Saturday, come dressed comfortably. You’ll be sitting in soft chairs for the majority of the time.
Please have dinner before you come on Friday. You can even bring it with you if you’re short on time. However, we will be serving you some delicious desserts on Friday night and we’ll have snacks, drinks, and a continental breakfast for you on Saturday.
This event is designed specifically for people in committed relationships . We definitively don’t recommend making this a first or early date. However, you don’t have to be married. If you’re engaged or seriously dating, you’ll get a TON of value out of attending. You’ll probably fall even deeper in love … which is really the goal, isn’t it?
Yes. Couples who attend our workshop tend to fall into two categories: enhancement and repair. We applaud couples who are wise enough to attend the workshop for enhancement purposes. Our brains are more open to new learning when we are not stressed out, and our workshop is designed with plenty of humor and romance, so enhancement couples have a terrific time while learning. Feedback from both enhancement and repair couples indicates that the couples workshop is very beneficial.
There will be ample parking on the North side of the building. Feel free to park anywhere. The event will be held on the ground floor in the conference room on the left side of the lobby. (You’ll see us when you get there. I promise.)
No problem. Couples sit as an audience the lectures, but we provide lots of extra square footage for privacy while couples engage in the workshop exercises. We’ll be are available to work one-on-one with couples who desire support and assistance during exercises. There is no group work, and no mandatory sharing.
Nope. This is not counseling or group therapy. It’s moreso education. They’ll be no group discussions about your personal issues. All exercises are done privately with your partner.
Yes, if you’re out of town. Hotel information is provided below. If you’re local, you can certainly go home. However, we recommend you try to preserve your focus on your relationship throughout the entire weekend, if possible. Try not to go home to kids, jobs, neighbors, pets, all the daily distractions and stressors we face. Try to keep the weekend just for the two of you.
We will not be selling tickets at the door. The only way to get tickets is to click the button below, and register. This is an intimate workshop and we’re only accepting a small number of couples. (This isn’t like a normal Date Night with like 400 couples in attendance.) So act fast before we sell out!
If cancellation is made at least three weeks prior to the workshop date, a refund less a $50 processing fee will be issued. Within three weeks of the workshop date, you have the option to transfer to any other workshop date within one year.
“Please do not wait until your relationship is swimming down the toilet. Would definitely recommend learning these principles because it can really help you see yourself and take your relationship to another level.”
– SABRINA F., 7P PARTICIPANT
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